Qualifying for a good marriage- Alhaji Akanayo

By Solomon Mensah

Love

 

The Dabodabo Man, Alhaji Akanayo, of the Black Herbal Clinic has outlined reasons why young men and women are struggling to get married or suffering in marriage.

Speaking on Nsem Pii on Happy Fm here in Accra, he primarily focused on women’s petty mistakes they do either before or after marriage.

He said that improper dressing, preference for rich men, insubordination among a lot contribute to women trooping into prayer camps for spiritual intervention.

Akanayo said that humans call problems for themselves and ironically, later go in search for solutions. “The solution is within us and one must live a good life to reflect good fortune in our lives,” he said.

He made an interesting suggestion to men to take their would-be-wives and wives to places such as the Makola Market, Tema Station and the likes at night for them to see how privileged they are in being in the comfort of a man. He said this in relation to the fact that some women do sleep in poor places while the would-be-wives and wives keep complaining bitterly about their men not taking them to the malls.

Paa Kwasi and Nyansa Boakwa added their voices to the preferences men have for women who would either be their girl friends or wives.

Akanayo threw a word of caution to men to also live a decent life and that he who seeks a good marriage should ask himself or herself if their lives befit a good marriage. “Ask yourself if you qualify?”